posted 08-07-2011 06:02 PM
Guessnyg,Welcome to the board!
10 years ago on our first trip....we didn't have a clue or plan on what to do. Relax. You can't help but to have a great time, even if you never venture off HWY 29 running up the valley. We are leaving for Napa/Sonoma on the 25th of this month ourselves and can't wait to get there!
First, see my post of 7/31/2011 titled Discounts on Tastings. Download the app. It will help you with which wineries offer discounts on tours & tastings.
Second, seeing that your fiance likes Pinot Noir, you should head over to Sonoma Valley - which is known more for Pinot than Napa.
Map for Napa: http://napavalley.com/visitorsinfo/Napa_Valley_Winery_Map.pdf
We are not Power Tasters.....in other words, we visit 3 to 4 wineries in a day. One in the morning and 2 or 3 in the afternoon depending on mood and whatever else we decide to do. Because of this, we drive ourselves and don't do the tour bus thing. If you decide to drive yourself, then remember: 1. Spit more than not, 2. take crackers & water with you in the car to eat & drink between tastings.
Since you are staying in Yountville, there is lots to do there (wines & food) in walking around distance.
I suggest a tour or two during your stay. Do a big producer (Mondavi is probably the best, then there is Beringer or Sterling). Sterling is neat because of the tram ride to the top. Great views off the veranda. Then, I would do a smaller producer tour. Grgich Hills in Rutherford, or better yet, north to Chateau Montelena. Chateau Montelena is on Tubbs Ln north of Calistoga. Terrific grounds, great people, remarkable building, and helped put N Cali wines on the map with their win in '76 Paris Tasting. (Movie "Bottle Shock"). Oh yea, their wines are pretty good too!
Wine Train? I think everyone should do it at least once. You can opt to take a winery tour off the train as well.
Greystone. Culinary Inst of America's west coast campus. We are foodies and go here each and every visit without fail. We go to the cooking demo (about 1 hr) and then eat at the Wine Spectator Restaurant on site. Here is their website: http://www.ciachef.edu/restaurants/wsgr/default.asp?source=GSH&segment=WSGR
St Helena. Just walking the town and browsing the shops. Taking it easy. Gott's Roadside is a must stop for a shake & burger.
Calistoga. We like walking the small town as well. My wife has her favorite clothing boutique there (Attitudes). Several great places to eat. Also known for their spas.
Napa wineries that we favor South to North on Hwy 29):
Jessup Cellars
Girard
Cakebread
Peju
Grgich Hills
V Sattui (mainly the deli)
Merryvale
Castello de Amorosa ( the castle )
Twomey
The Silverado Trail runs parallel to Hwy 29 up the valley. Lots and lots of great places there as well, not to mention just a great drive.
Others will offer their opinions and suggestions. I am sure that you will have a great trip and want to go back as soon as you can!
If you want my opinion on Sonoma, let me know and I will post over there. As I said, best Pinot Noir is in Sonoma.